Clients have asked me, “will this pain ever end?”,” Will I ever feel better?”, while suffering from heartbreak.
As their Lifecoach, what I often tell them is to ask a different set of questions. Doing this will help you heal faster and you will gain powerful life skills. You might just find a path to the best version of yourself.
“What can I learn from the failure of this relationship?”, “What do I need to learn about myself now so that I don’t tolerate an unhappy relationship or an abusive relationship again?”,”What do I need to build in myself so that I can find a healthier partner next time?”,”What can I gain from this experience so that I can be empowered to reach my full potential?”
When you focus on the second set of questions your mind will lead you to grow while the first set of questions lead you to emotional roadblocks.